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Meditation is a Quiet Revolution
For over 30 years, I have been meditating. For almost as many
years, in workshops, consultations, friendly conversations, and
writing, I have been encouraging, teaching, or leading people
to meditate and create quiet times. During this time, the world
has changed considerably, and so have I. My most important
learning is: everyone is different. Certainly there are
commonalities in meditating, but each individual is unique. I
consider that meditation is one of the most empowering
practices that anyone can engage in.
A "quiet revolution" is an oxymoron, of course. Meditation is
generally a private, quiet practice. In North America its
acceptance has changed dramatically over the last several
years, although it is still not universally accepted. As with
most revolutions, an underground is established before, during,
and after the outward manifestations of the awakening. In this
culture which I know, more and more individuals are speaking
and writing about their meditation practice.
Meditating in groups is also common and very powerful, and yet
each meditator still has a unique, quiet, private experience.
In the workplace, meditation is rarely practiced openly, nor is
it discussed, except in safe, small groups or among friends.
When I was a frequent workshop presenter, I had many
participants speak to me privately in hushed tones at break
times to confess that they meditate. The voices may not be as
hushed these days, but still there is a quietness, even a
silence, about the practice in many settings.
I am comfortable with the variety of words used to describe
meditation. My own purpose for meditation is to connect with
the Divine and be replenished by the Source. Some speak about
mystical experiences and higher consciousness, while others are
more comfortable talking about relaxation, calmness, and
resilience. Heightened awareness, intuition, imagery, and
vision are frequently used to describe experiences of
meditation. I find that helping others to express their own
meditation experiences is a powerful process for them, even
when the words do not flow smoothly.
Long-time meditators can find other long-time mediators easily.
Meditators give off signals or vibrations that are calmer and
more aligned with self than those who do not meditate or do not
have a meditative-type practice that taps into higher
consciousness. Gardening, yoga, certain athletic activities,
and regular relaxation can achieve the same soothing signals
when practiced in ways that achieve harmony with self.
No matter how or where you meditate, you must make a choice to
meditate and practice it regularly in order to benefit fully.
Full benefits come with regular practice over a period of time.
Meditating only when stressed may certainly be beneficial in
the immediate situation, but the long-term benefits of a
regular practice include general well-being, health, a strong
immune system, longevity, clarity of thought, and balance.
Meditation is sometimes associated with certain religions.
Meditation can be practiced in any and all religions, but
the
two are not synonymous. In my work, I keep meditation distinct
from religion; if my clients choose to join the two, that is
fine. Those with strong religious beliefs gravitate to the
types of meditation that fit their beliefs. Wikipedia has a
comprehensive listing of meditation methods at
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meditation
Regardless of the chosen method, the benefits of regular
meditation, over time, are as varied as the individuals who
meditate. It is quite common for long-time meditators to
acknowledge they benefit physically, emotionally, mentally, and
spiritually.
Recently I received an email message from a long-time meditator
in India talking about her meditation experiences. It was a
delight to read. It became clear to me that she has integrated
the same elements that I encourage people to discover and
use.
She uses her breath to relax. She has several processes to
handle mind chatter and stress so that she is not disturbed by
them in her meditation. She has two different "focal points"
for her attention. One is a visual focus, a traditional Indian
lamp, which she visualizes as divine light that lightens her
heart. Another focal point is one of the most famous mantras,
Om, which she chants repeatedly, finding that it takes only a
brief time to achieve the state of consciousness that is her
purpose for meditation. And she has a regular practice.
Her message was a beautiful summary of what many long-term
meditators might report. While working with both new and
long-time meditators, I have discovered that the most difficult
aspect of meditation is to practice it regularly. All the
elements of meditation are easy to understand, but to sit and
do it challenges many new meditators.
If you have not meditated before, it may seem mysterious.
However, meditation is simple. I recommend a maximum of twenty
minutes for new meditators. Here are the elements:
* Arrange time when you will not be disturbed;
* Sit in a comfortable position and relax;
* Close your eyes, unless you prefer an open-eye
meditation;
* Breathe intentionally for a few breaths;
* Choose a focal point, such as music, a chant, a pleasing
image, a guiding voice;
* Stay with the focal point; if your mind wanders, gently
return to the focal point;
* Bring the meditation to a close and return to your
activities, refreshed.
If this is your first time meditating, you may feel that
"nothing is happening" during the first few times you sit to
meditate. That is a common sensation. At the end of your chosen
meditation time, simply get up and continue with your day. The
benefits are cumulative, which is why I advocate a regular
practice.
If you want to meditate, yet are not meditating or are not
meditating as frequently as you want, please be gentle with
yourself. While it is true that only you can sit down and do
it, you can also find ways to make it more appealing. In order
to have a meditation practice, you must practice meditation.
Above all else, follow your heart and trust your own inner
guidance.
What about you? Do you want to be part of this quiet
revolution? Are you already part of the revolution but wanting
to meditate more regularly? If so, meditate one session at a
time until it becomes a natural part of your
life.
by Jeannie Marshall - 1/10/2008
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Jeanie Marshall, Personal Development Consultant and Coach,
facilitates private consultations by telephone throughout the
world, appears as a guest on radio shows, produces guided
meditations, and provides information for multiple web sites.
She has been actively involved in the human potential movement
for more than twenty years as a mentor, coach, facilitator,
organizational development consultant, personal development
consultant, and writer. She has an M.S. in Organization
Development.
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